Well...

So, I may have to take back the "good kisser" comment and the "potential" comment. I am not sure how much to say here - but here goes...

C and I had an impromptu date Friday. I was at my work Christmas party and had plans later with my sister. He texted to ask if there was any chance I would want to do something laid back that night. I thought about acting unavailable, but decided I wanted to go. So I told him that I did have plans with my sister later and would only have time to squeeze in a drink.

We ended up staying out till 10 together because Sis cancelled while we were having our drink. He tried to coax me back to his place. Numerous Times. Instead, I played coy and he was a gentleman and drove me and my bike all the way home (we were like 2 minutes from his place and 20 from mine). The kiss at the end of the night was lovely.

So why would I change my mind? Well, the next night he totally bootie called me. At about midnight we started texting and he wouldn't stop asking me to let him pick me up and take me back to his place. For the first 30 minutes, I said no. I was tempted to just go over and truly force him to only cuddle and make out a bit (which is what he promised me - only cuddling - oh boys - do they think we are so dense to their ploys). After another 30 minutes of texts and phone calls, I finally decided that this may be my rebound opportunity.

Of course, we didn't just cuddle. And at first the kissing was still superb, but as he gets more passionate he kisses much deeper and harder - for me, he goes a little too far. And have you ever had the experience where a guy doesn't realize that he is not giving you much room to maneuver and you feel trapped? It went there too. Also, I am not nearly as attracted to him with his shirt off - manboob issue. He is trying to lose weight though.

We had a good time. Fooled around quite a lot but didn't have sex. So, maybe there still is potential. And he seemed talented at some things and definitely a quick learner. He likes to be told what you like. This is good, because he is willing to adapt to your desires. But I don't like too much chatter.

So is it just a rebound and some fun times ahead? I need more dates! I need more options!