Thursday, December 2, 2010

Trouble right here in River city

So, I dove into being single like I dive into many things in my life. I do not believe it is a bad trait per se. It got me a Cougar as my first car (kind of a dream come true), but then that turned out to be a money pit. It got me a great job in San Francisco. It got me a job in Chicago in a bad market, even though that turned out to be working for a masochistic narcissist. And it got me a new and better job.

Truly, I enjoy my plumb desire for life and all it offers. A few scrapes is nothing compared to the thrill.
But - THERE ARE SO MANY MEN!!!

So many men are on dating sites. And why do so many of those put up ugly pictures? Really boys? If a woman put up pictures half as bad as some of the ones you do, you wouldn't spend 2 seconds looking at what she wrote. Of course, a bad picture that is a true representation is better than no picture.

I feel like I have spent as much time on this, lately, as I have looking for jobs in the past. Probably more. This is more fun.

So I think I have a date Saturday. And possibly one next week if I can find the time.

Wondering when the slowing down will occur. Hopefully not until I find a guy who proves he is ready to commit. I wonder what that will mean for me now that I wasted 15 months on someone who wasn't. Am I going to actually have to have a ring given to me before I will be exclusive with someone? And then the ever present question - if you are dating multiple guys - how do you handle sex??? Can you really only sleep with one man. How long would the others string along for in that case? But I am getting WAY ahead of myself.
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