New boys Part Two

OOPS! I totally forgot to write part 2!! That is because part two was so nonthrilling that I apparently did not even want to waste my precious time on it. And you want to know a funny thing. If he called or texted - I would go out with him again.

So tall guy - not particularly heart throb material, but nothing to throw back after the catch either. We went to Ghiardelli - what a stupid idea for me! I was picking the place to meet for tea. But I was pretty sure that the italian place in the Hancock closes at 3:00 ish. What I really wanted was their mexican hot cocoa. The original idea was get tea and walk the beach/trail. So we go to Ghiardelli and I am a good girl because it was two days before my weight watchers meeting (which while going really slow - is also going really great!! I cannot wait to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe once I hit goal!), so I just get tea. And he gets a strawberry shake. Which means that we have to sit in the store/restaurant area to eat it because it is so darn hot out, it would melt in an instant. There I am sitting around all these hot fudge sundaes... :) But I digress.

So, the conversation was ok. Interesting, but also a bit slow. Or rather - in Ghiardelli, it was pretty good conversation. Nothing thrilling, but good. But was we got walking it got a bit harder.

Frankly - it was a pretty boring date. The funny thing: I left the date thinking boring could be good. How backwards have I gotten? But I am also serious about that. Everytime that it is exciting, a rush, a deep connection - that fades fast. Either the guy was just working really hard to rope you in and then backs off when he catches you. Or he wraps you around his finger only to pull out his immense psychosis after you think he could be the one. Or the least annoying - you just run out of similarities and realize that his daily life is so vastly different and while he wants to share it with you, you really do not want any part (like shopping at Costco or Bestbuy everyday to while away the time).

So boring, but with like ideas - not so shabby. It's steady. Sometimes interesting. Who knows - could be amazing in bed - it's a struggle to get that far to find out.

It is neither here nor there because I haven't heard boo from him since last Tuesday. I could have possibly not sent the right signals - I said the fated "So... call me". BUT I MEAN IT WHEN I SAY IT! And when I say it, there is no way I am going to call you. I am putting the ball in your court by doing that because I cannot tell whether you are interested AT ALL.

So that was two. I will try to post a bit later or tomorrow. I have come to some interesting ponderings about dating and the space I am in right now.