So tired of the up and down

Had a second date tonight. And perhaps I am overreacting, but I don't think so. It was a really nice date. Going really well. We went to a tea shop and just talked and then went to walk on the beach. Had some nice kisses. I was totally comfortable. Perhaps too comfortable. As the date went on I asked less questions and talked more. Right in the last 10 minutes, I just felt like I lost him. Like he didn't know how to react to what I said - didn't agree? Somehow it offended him? No idea. The goodnight kiss was so puritan and quick. He said he had a really good time. Why can that phrase be the kiss of death or actually the truth? This is really sucking!!! Before those 10 minutes he seemed really into it - really into me. So confused.

This comes shortly after a 3rd date with another guy that I thought went really well and then turned in that same sort of end of the date vibe, a few random texts for the next two days and then disappearance. So I am going to be kind of pissed if this just happens again. Graaaaarrrrrrgh@!