Both dates fell through. One asked to reschedule because I asked him to meet early so I could watch the Steelers game. All of this planning was only over text. When I tried to call, he didn't answer and he didn't have any voicemail set up on his cell phone. Not just no greeting. No voicemail at all. And I couldn't leave a message. That is sketchy to me. So I am not going to pursue rescheduling.

The other cancellation was kind of funny. I had a way too truthful and revealing conversation (for this early in the dating stage) with someone that has potential. We have not met. Thus the too revealing, but he asked about the multi-dating, so I went into why I am multi-dating. He will not last long if he cannot deal with me dating more than just him. We shall see. BUT right after I hung up with him, I was answering a text from Mary and a call came in. If I am texting when a call comes in and I keep typing, it will automatically answer the call. So I barely saw the caller ID. The guy who called has the same first name as the guy I had just talked to!!! So I answered "Are you calling me back because the Steelers scored?" and the guy was like "Tara? It's D... from eHarmony" "Yeah...hi." Until he said he had to cancel tonight, I had no idea he wasn't the other D! And then they sounded kind of alike! So then I got paranoid that the other D was playing some sort of trick trying to show me the evils of multi-dating. Poor guy. I sounded so aloof on the phone. Basically said "Oh yeah sure whatever." "Maybe we can reschedule for some other weekend?" "Of course. Just let me know. Bye." LMAO!!!