Sex in the City

Sex in the city is a really depressing book. But also very poorly written. I don't understand why it was so popular or got any fame. Maybe the abrupt writing style and dialogue that often makes no sense was new and hip at the time. But, to be honest, it just doesn't work. If New Yorkers really talked like that in the 90's, its a wonder that they were such a powerful city.

But it does bring up some points that are on my mind. Points about relationships that start out exciting and then just end. Things just go bad. Things that you both were going to be so good about for each other. Mainly just being unselfish and aware of the others needs. Those moments grow fewer (or never get to be enough) and then the nagging starts. More importantly - relationships get boring. That is my biggest worry with both of the guys that are potentials right now. That they bore me. I mean, they are also interesting at times and there are plenty of moments of laughter. They are both enjoyable. The one I know better is sweet, listens, is hot, the sex is fun. But yeah - sometimes I am just plain bored. Is this just how it is until you develop a routine? Until you are comfortable enough to do your own thing even though the two of you are together? Instead of just hanging out doing something boring together just to spend some more time "getting to know each other" when you would rather be going about your day.

I know - it doesn't sound like I should be trying to have a relationship with either of these guys. Stay tuned.